minissha lamba divorce with ryan tham: Minissha Lamba On Divorce With Ryan Tham
The story of ‘Qutub Minar’ is very sweet. It has comedy, fun and also interesting elements. What happens when a person is different. Society treats them very differently but this issue has been portrayed very lightly. I can’t say much about the movie, just waiting for its trailer. Its director is Raj Ashru who has been quite famous in music videos. Karanveer Bohra is with me in this. Enjoyed working with them a lot. Karanveer is a very cool person and keeps adding passion on the set. There was a good bonding with him on the set. We shot this web movie in the interior of the North after the first lockdown. There was such a network problem that we could not talk to anyone. We shot on set with a very limited crew. ‘
How much did Corona change your philosophy of life?
‘The second wave of Corona is really very dangerous. I think people have realized how deadly this is, so people are no longer complaining about the lockdown. They have understood that going out is like playing with life. There is no one more fortunate than us if we can sit safely at home. The truth is that now I have started giving importance to small things. I don’t think we should take anything lightly in life. ‘
As a Bollywood actress, you played powerful roles as well as glamorous roles in many films like ‘Yahan’, ‘Hum Tum Shabana’, ‘Bachna Ae Haseeno’, ‘Bhoomi’ but then a break came in your career. What is the reason
‘Such a break comes in the lives of artists unknowingly. Like the corporate world, the career break of us artists also proves to be negative at times. However, if I look at it from a different perspective I can say that an actor can take a break, come back into acting and when he comes back there are different kinds of roles for him like I am getting. Now a lot has changed from OTT. Now if you come back even after a break of 5 years then you are getting good roles according to your age and look. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. I used to do selective work before and I still have the same attitude. ‘
Speaking of your personal life, after 5 years of marriage, it would not have been easy for you to get a divorce with Ryan Tham?
‘I would like to say that everyone has the right to be happy in their life. In the past, divorce was not viewed favorably in the society but now when a woman has become self-reliant or is able to have her own opinion, the attitude has changed. Earlier, only a woman was responsible for maintaining the relationship. He would have taken the contract to make all the sacrifices but now the woman has understood that she is not happy with her marriage so she also has the right to leave that relationship. In the West, the concept of self love is very strong. Self love does not mean being selfish. Divorce is not easy but when the relationship becomes toxic, it is right to leave. I would also like to say that your marriage or relationship can be an important part of your life but it cannot be your whole life. Unfortunately, women are identified by their relationship and marital status but now times are changing.
Is there any bitterness in you now regarding marriage and love?
‘There is no bitterness at all about marriage and love because I am young, beautiful. Then there is no rule that you can love only once in your life. You can’t steal or rob but you are single and if you don’t have a relationship then you have the right to love. ‘
Have you trolled a lot about your nose surgery in the past?
‘Look at the actors and actresses here who have to say good and bad things. We are easy prey and those who are poor artists cannot even defend themselves. Our profession is such that people will throw mud. Now give an explanation about yourself in it and then the conversation will continue for years or you will sit quietly. It is part of our profession that our relationship will be discus, our body will be the center of discussion. There is nothing you can do. You just have to handle it. ‘
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